The “it” that eyes have is the ability to connect with people in a powerful way. Former President Bill Clinton is well known for his ability to captivate an audience of one or one thousand by making and maintaining eye contact. You, too, can learn how to achieve eye contact with others in a way that will make you memorable.
Etiquette in the Western world is popularly believed to have its roots in The Age of Chivalry during the European Middle Ages (circa 1100 -1500 A.D.). Throughout this age, kings, queens and knights in shining armor created a code of behavior and ethics that has lasted in some form to modern times.
During this era, the modern concept of St. Valentine’s Day emerged. Although the day harbors a shadowy past stretching back many centuries--its roots buried deep in both paganism and Christianity--there is no doubt about the romance and chivalry that materialized around 1400 A.D., including the heart-shape as a symbol of romantic love and Chaucer's Parlement of Foules, connecting St. Valentine’s Day to romance.
Who are you? Who do you want to be?
Question: What do Apple, Starbucks, Facebook, Amazon.com, Coke and Pepsi have in common?
Answer: They are all highly-recognizable, distinctive and wildly popular brands.
Question: What do Nelson Mandela, Hillary Clinton, The Dali Llama, Justin Bieber and Santa Claus have in common?
Answer: They are all highly-recognizable, distinctive and wildly popular brands.
What comes to mind when you hear the word, “Apple”: a sleek, highly efficient and very cool i-product? Or when you think of American Eagle do you equate it with chic, up-to-the-minute fashion? And, how about Coke, a product that’s been around a long time and has had generations to build its brand, employing a wide variety of images and messages? See how this vintage Coke commercial from the 1970s featuring teen and 20-somethings makes you feel about Coke.
Much has been written and discussed regarding the generational differences in the workplace, so I thought it might be helpful to identify what have become the names and birth-year spans of the generations of the 20th- 21st Centuries. Please keep in mind that those born close to the generations before or after their own will often share those respective characteristics, as defined by historians, marketers and various individuals throughout the years. For example, a Gen Xer born in 1978 might exhibit many qualities of a Gen Yer. (Among experts there are also some variations in the year-spans of each generation.)
And Not in a Good Way!
Is there anyone left on the planet who doesn’t comprehend the crisis in civility that we’re facing with our mobile devices? We’re in the midst of a PDA pandemic that has turned us into addicts. And, just as we get our dependency on crackberries under control, Apple tempts us with its new iPhone.
The paradox – and hypocrisy -- is that while most people are quick to criticize cell phone offenses, the same people also tend to be the offenders. The good news is that mobile devices can make our lives easier, more productive and safer; the bad news is that can make our lives harder, less productive and more dangerous.
Whatever. Absolutely! You know….like…just sayin’.
These top the list of the most annoying words that litter our conversations, according to a Marist Poll published last month. Students at Michigan's Lake Superior State University also published their annual New Year’s Eve List of the most overused words.
Several such lists are published every year, yet we continue to hear – as well as use -- these utterances daily. The latest polls and surveys, however, should serve as a reminder that we need to concentrate on purging these shopworn words from our vocabularies. And, most of us are guilty of using them to some degree.
Time for a Change
Each new year ushers in hope for renewal, for reinvention, for change. This particular New Year marshals in a sense of urgency beyond the usual determination to get organized, lose weight, exercise more, improve finances, learn a foreign language, take better care of one’s health, stop smoking, study harder, travel more, contribute more time and money to charities and so on.
This year, students and young professionals are more deeply concerned than ever about wrapping up high school successfully and getting into college, graduating from college, paying off student loans, landing that first real job, keeping that job, moving into their own place, getting on the right career path, and advancing on that path or making career changes.
Jeanne Nelson 