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Kwanzaa Etiquette

 "The seven principles of Kwanzaa -- unity, self-determination, collective work and responsibility, cooperative economics, purpose, creativity and faith -- teach us that when we come together to strengthen our families and communities and honor the lesson of the past, we can face the future with joy and optimism." ~ President Bill Clinton

Out of the turbulent 1960s and the ashes of conflict emerged the celebration of Kwanzaa. The brainchild of activist Maulana Karenga, Kwanzaa was established in 1966 to heal, unify and revolutionize the Black community in the wake of the Watts Riot in 1965. The focus of the holiday is the celebration of African-American cultural roots, focusing in large part on the African Continent's agricultural history. The name Kwanzaa is drawn from the Swahili phrase, “matunda ya kwanza,” which means "first fruits of the harvest." Kwanzaa is celebrated during the last week of the year, beginning on December 26 and ending on January 1.

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Hanukkah Etiquette

 

 

The "Festival of Lights," is a celebration of victory over oppression.

As my recent blog entries -- as well as those of past years -- have addressed the diversity of celebrations during the month of December, I'd like to devote this entry to the celebration of Hanukkah, which begins tonight and will be observed by millions of people worldwide. The first night of Hanukkah typically falls on the 25th day of the Jewish calendar month of Kislev and lasts for eight days and nights. Because my husband was raised Jewish and I was raised Christian, since our marriage we have celebrated both Hanukkah and Christmas. If you work with, are related to or will be visiting those who celebrate Hanukkah, I hope this entry will provide you with some insight to, as well as the etiquette of, this holiday.

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Holiday Etiquette Reminders

 

What we have to do... is to find a way to celebrate our diversity
and debate our differences without fracturing our communities.
~ Hillary Clinton

To make it through the holidays with your professionalism and dignity intact, there are some etiquette rules and concepts to keep in mind. I've elaborated on them in the past, so the following are reminders of these best practices in business and social etiquette, with links to my previous entries on the topics and the holiday etiquette involved:

Yes, Virginia, There Is a Black Friday


He who has not Christmas in his heart will never find it under a tree.
~ Roy L. Smith

Guest Post by Santa Claus

This post is for all the Virginias and everyone else who share my concern about Christmas decorations and paraphernalia in stores, restaurants, streets and even houses before other holidays have been celebrated, including Halloween. And now our beloved Thanksgiving Day is being turned into a bargain shopping day! In my humble opinion, that’s just plain wrong.

Let’s Talk Turkey!

 

"I am, on this account, not displeased that the figure is not known
as a bald eagle, but looks more like a turkey. For in truth,
the turkey is in comparison a much more respectable bird,
and withal a true original native of America."
 ~ Excerpt from Benjamin Franklin’s Letter
to Daughter Sarah Bache, January 26, 1784

As we approach another Thanksgiving Day, I'd like to take this opportunity to pay homage to that noble and thoroughly American icon, the turkey.

Deck The Halls Without The Folly

Deck the halls without the folly
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
All the staffers must be jolly.
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
Thus, to get around a quarrel
Fa-la-la, la-la-la, la-la-la.
Poll the office is the moral.
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la.
Could too many decorations
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
Hurt coworkers' good relations?
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
Please follow my etiquette advice.
Fa-la-la, la-la-la, la-la-la.
I shouldn’t have to tell you twice.
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
Show respect for ev’ry custom.
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
Christian, Jew, Hindu & Muslim
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
Plan the décor, all together. 
Fa-la-la, la-la-la, la-la-la.
This could be a grand bellwether.
Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la
~A Christmas Parody by Jeanne Nelson 

Come every December, or even earlier, people across America and around the world will be decorating their workplaces for the holidays. Early in my career, the offices in which I worked displayed holiday decorations solely comprised of Christmas décor, including the now widely banned crèches. As the years passed, token menorahs appeared, but they seemed lost among the ornamental trees, boughs, wreaths, garlands, and other Christmas- related garnishments.   

Christmas Caroling Etiquette

Here we come a-wassailing
Among the leaves so green,
Here we come a-wand’ring
So fair to be seen.
Love and joy come to you,
And to your wassail, too,
And God bless you, and send you
A Happy New Year,
And God send you a Happy New Year.
~ The Wassail Song 

As someone who is plain goofy about the Christmas holidays (but like Charlie Brown doesn’t like the crass commercialism that accompanies them), I love caroling. So, I was pleased to discover both traditional as well as a bit of creative caroling on some college campuses, such as Bridgewater College in Virginia’s Shenandoah Valley, Syracuse University in New York and the University of Toronto Law School. And, for more than a century Christmas carol services have been performed at Harvard, which has connections to a number of famous composers of Christmas carols.

Black Friday Etiquette

"If you get up early to go Christmas shopping today,
you can save a ton of money.
Of course, if you roll over and say, 'Screw shopping this year,'
you can save even more.”
~ Maxine

Maxine may be on to something. Black Friday is a day that has become infamous in the annals of consumer shopping, so maybe it's better if everyone just turned off their alarm clocks, went back to sleep and skipped the madness.

Thanksgiving Traditions

"As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest
appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them."
~ John Fitzgerald Kennedy

To Americans, Thanksgiving means hearth and home, a gathering of family and friends and good and plentiful food and drink. To the pilgrims who celebrated what we have come to recognize as the First Thanksgiving nearly 400 years ago, it was an occasion of thankfulness and gratitude by those who had survived the voyage to these shores as well as the first harsh winter in their new land.